Discreet guy in bandung

HE20X

omg why must english, thats make me cengok.. Haha.. So i hope u can find the right guy. Dont talk too much in here, its social media right..

mikz2

sorry baru log in lg nihh sok atuh @K_Anderson pelopori saja... mau lwt media apa jg bolehlah hahaha, soalnya kalau sama saya rada jarang uy log in ke bf hehehe
@BennyMonday boleh sok pm in ajah hahaha

mikz2

sorry kekirim 2x hehe

adam_vanility

^_^

rianagung

kemungkinan besar bisex, tergantung mau kemana lebih diarahinnya. kalo terus ada di dunia kayak gini, kemungkinan jadi gay lebih besar.
saran dari gue jangan sampe lo ngerasa nyaman ada di dunia kayak gini. kayak gue

Castiel

berhenti bertanya___karna itu cm akan berujung ke pertanyaan yg lain..
Lebih bijak untuk mulai menerima keadaan sendiri.. Aq ga jamin kalo setelah proses "penerimaan" ini semua akan jdi lebih mudah.. Tapi,,at least km ga berseteru terus dgn diri sndiri..
Kita ga akan pernah tau apa yg akan terjadi selanjutnya.. But don't give up !!! Just dont.. #XoXo

barethijau

maslah klasik kaya gue. gue 36 tahun belum merid karena adanya sex orientasi yang gw kira menyimpang tapi jujur ane blm pernah gituan ama cowo satu pun di dunia ini. mau nekad merid takut gak bisa gituan lagi ama istri it;s very complicated

suhayunendi

hai..

riodakovic

salam kenal semua

dam12

willypro wrote:

willypro wrote: »

Hi, i'm willy. Actually, that's not my real name. I still living a very discreet life. I live in a very religious community. Until now i still don't know about my sexual preference coz i like cute girls, but somehow i cannot connect myseIf with them. I even had gone to see a psycholog and she couldn't define my sexual orientation. I told my bestfriend about my curiosity and she was surprised coz i am a guy who can easily talk to a girl. I am a midtwenty guy, live in bandung. I still believe in the Lord, (yeah i am christian). I'm chinese. Anyway deep down in my heart i need someone whom i can talk to. Someone who have a same problem with me. I just wanna share about my feeling and try to figure out myself.

hmm we are on the same page here buddy.

some of my closest friends had known my sexual preference, they even know that I had sex with other guys too.. also, I come from a very religious christian community/family. so when i told them (my parents knew too) they told me to repent, bla,bla,bla... I tried but i cant lie that there's a struggle in my heart and my mind..

we can talk, if u want to..

Farkas

@willypro Salam kenal sesama anak Bandung... Wkwkwk...

syovan991

jawabannya sebenernya ada pada diri sendiri. struggling with your own heart and self just ruin everything, you will never win against yourself. find the best way to take, find the best friend to tell, and find the best choice to enjoy your life. there's no wrong or true answer. nothing wrong with preference, as long as it doesn't harm others' life. love yourself, and give 'em no fuck. Good luck!

Castiel wrote: »

berhenti bertanya___karna itu cm akan berujung ke pertanyaan yg lain..
Lebih bijak untuk mulai menerima keadaan sendiri.. Aq ga jamin kalo setelah proses "penerimaan" ini semua akan jdi lebih mudah.. Tapi,,at least km ga berseteru terus dgn diri sndiri..
Kita ga akan pernah tau apa yg akan terjadi selanjutnya.. But don't give up !!! Just dont.. #XoXo

Well said bro @Castiel!!

greatxpectation

Nice thread... Buat tmn2 yg berniat utk "terjun"... Gw sarankan berpikir jutaan kali trlebih dulu... Gw ga bilang gw discreet... Dan gw menyayangkan hal itu... Krna dgn masa lalu gw yg liar malah bikin masalah di kemudian hari... Mau gak mau harus berpikir karir... Keluarga dll.... Bikin sengsara mikirin itu? Ya.. tp ada ending dan resultnya... Slalu ada jalan klo ad kemauan... Mengenai gay life nya bs dicari figur yg diinginkan... Jdkan sahabat atau sodara... Istilahnya bromance lah... Srn gw sih itu... Kcuali tekad lo buat be a pure gay dan siap menerima jutaan konsekwensinya...that's my imho

NovumSanctus

Nobita_nobi wrote: »

@boyorg nah di sana bedanya,gw suka yang rada2 mirip gw, rada bulet (ga gendut2 amat), kacamataan, dgn bntukan nerd.

yeah..gue sih suka yg mirip gue jg..haha..kind of admire myself in different person..

syovan991

Jaddedan wrote: »

Nobita_nobi wrote: »

@boyorg nah di sana bedanya,gw suka yang rada2 mirip gw, rada bulet (ga gendut2 amat), kacamataan, dgn bntukan nerd.

yeah..gue sih suka yg mirip gue jg..haha..kind of admire myself in different person..

nah! gw juga sama. pengen ketemu versi gue yang lain dengan bodi yg lebih tinggi dari gw. hahahaha..