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Ih kok samaan, mungkin @omin dah berubah lagi.
INFP_1Being a part of the Diplomat (NF) personality group, INFPs are guided by their principles, rather than by logic (Analysts), excitement (Explorers), or tradition (Sentinels). When deciding how to move forward, they will look to honor, beauty, morality and virtue – they are led by the purity of their intent. INFPs are proud of this quality, and rightly so, but not everyone understands the drive behind these feelings, and it can lead to isolation.
If INFPs are not careful they can lose themselves in their quest for good and neglect the day-to-day upkeep that life demands. INFPs often drift into deep thought, enjoying contemplating the hypothetical and the philosophical more than any other personality type. Left unchecked, the INFP may start to lose touch, ending up in “hermit mode”, and it can take a great deal of energy from their friends or partner to bring them back to the real world.
But at their best, these qualities enable the INFP type to communicate deeply with others, easily speaking in metaphors and parables, and understanding and creating symbols to share their ideas. The strength of their symbolic reasoning lends itself well to creative works, and there are many famous INFP poets, writers and actors. They have a talent for expressing themselves – their beauty and their secrets – through their fictional characters.
Nor does INFP’s ability with language stop with their native tongue – as with most people in the Diplomat type group, they are considered gifted when it comes to learning a second (or third!) language. INFPs’ gift for communication also lends itself well to their desire for harmony, a recurring theme with Diplomats. But unlike their Extroverted cousins, INFPs will focus their attention on just a few people, a single worthy cause – spread too thinly, they’ll run out of energy, and even become dejected and overwhelmed by all the bad in the world that they can’t fix, a sad sight for INFP’s friends, who will come to depend on their rosy outlook.
Luckily, like the flowers in spring, INFP’s affection, creativity, altruism and idealism will always come back, rewarding them and those they love perhaps not with logic and utility, but with a world view that inspires compassion, kindness and beauty wherever they go.
Passionate and energetic. INFPs tend to be very energetic when it comes to causes they believe in and are willing to fight for. They may be quiet and even shy in public, but their passion should not be underestimated.
Very creative. INFP personalities find it easy to interpret signs and hidden meanings; furthermore, their well-developed intuition has no difficulties connecting the dots and coming up with interesting, unusual ideas.
Open-minded and flexible. INFPs dislike being constrained by rules and do not seek to impose them on others. They tend to be fairly liberal, open-minded individuals, as long as their principles and ideas are not being challenged.
Idealistic. INFPs are perhaps the most idealistic of all personality types, believing that people are inherently good and everyone should do their best to fight evil and injustice in the world.
Seek and value harmony. INFPs do not want to dominate and work hard to ensure that everyone’s opinion is valued and heard.
Can be very dedicated and hard-working. As mentioned above, INFP personalities are both very passionate and idealistic. Not surprisingly, they can also be unbelievably dedicated to their chosen cause or an organization. It is unlikely that an INFP will give up simply because everyone else has abandoned the cause or it is getting difficult to keep going.
INFP weaknesses
Too altruistic. INFPs may be so focused on doing good things and helping other people that they may neglect their own needs. Alternatively, they may fight for their chosen cause, ignoring everything else in life.
Dislike dealing with data. INFP personalities are very much in tune with emotions and morality, but they are likely to have difficulties when it comes to dealing with facts and data, e.g., analyzing connections or finding discrepancies.
Difficult to get to know. People with the INFP personality type tend to be private, reserved individuals. They are also likely to be quite self-conscious.
Take many things personally. INFPs cherish their ideals and find it very difficult to accept criticism, taking such comments very personally. They also tend to avoid conflict situations, always looking for a solution that satisfies everybody.
May be too idealistic. INFP personalities are prone to being too dreamy and idealistic, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. They may idealize—or even idolize—their partner, forgetting that no one is perfect.
Impractical. INFPs do not really see practical things as important. They may even forget to eat and drink if they are doing something that excites and motivates them.
INFP_3INFP friends are exceptionally loyal and supportive. They are also good at recognizing other people’s emotional states and feelings, and this trait allows INFPs to be very sensitive and insightful. That being said, people with this personality type are likely to be quite private when it comes to their own feelings. Again, INFPs do not feel comfortable revealing their sensitive inner core to people they do not know well.
INFP friends are likely to be intense, passionate and idealistic individuals, but the quiet and relaxed exterior of an INFP can be deceiving. On the other hand, most INFPs need a lot of “alone time” as well, and this enigmatic trait can sometimes confuse even their closest friends.
INFPs are usually very good at reading other people’s motives and have no difficulties filtering out the suspicious individuals. However, if the INFP friend decides to open up and start trusting the other person, they will be able to form a very strong and stable relationship. It should also be noted that INFPs feel great respect for people with similar principles and values; these notions are extremely dear to people with this personality type.
INFP personalities will probably feel most comfortable among friends belonging to other Feeling (F) and Prospecting (P) types. The rationality and perceived “coldness” of Thinking (T) types may be threatening to them, while Judging (J) types may appear too decisive and rigid. This does not mean that an INFP will be unable to communicate with these personalities on a professional level, but it is quite unlikely that they will become close friends.
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One of the main issues faced by INFPs is that they gravitate toward putting their partners on an imaginary pedestal, both when they are still dating and even later in the relationship. In other words, INFPs tend to idealize and romanticize their (sometimes long-awaited) partners, assigning them unrealistic traits. This happens because INFPs are often so focused on the ideals of romance and love that when love finally knocks on their door, it becomes difficult to separate imagination from reality.
INFP_2That being said, this is not necessarily a bad thing, provided that the INFP is mature enough to recognize and address these tendencies. As their imagination is so rich and vivid, INFPs can always come up with new ways to surprise their partner and improve the relationship. This is especially useful when the INFP is dating. However, they should make sure that this does not become an obstacle or a burden. Not many types can cope with the unrelenting stream of the INFP’s ideas, especially if the relationship is still in its early stages. The INFP will do their best to help their partner grow and develop, although this may not always be appreciated.
An INFP’s love is deep and sincere, manifesting in unrelenting support and affection. People with this personality type will also do everything they can to avoid conflict, which can also contribute to the stability of the relationship. As long as their partner is willing to reciprocate and make conscious efforts to resolve disagreements calmly and peacefully, the INFP’s love will endure all tests of time. It is doubtful that someone with the INFP personality type will be jealous or overbearing—quite the opposite. An INFP is likely to trust their partner and respect their independence.
Despite their best efforts, the INFP’s opposition to any kind of criticism or conflict can cause problems in their relationships. This is especially relevant if their partner belongs to a Thinking (T) or Judging (J) type as their traits inevitably push them toward rational, impersonal comments or conclusions. The INFP may find it very difficult to examine those ideas objectively without internalizing them and thinking that something must be their fault.
INFPs are prone to reacting to stressful situations very emotionally, as if their entire value system is being threatened. They may also resort to guilt-tripping or irrational accusations. It is really important that people with this personality type develop their ability to take criticism calmly and objectively. INFPs’ imagination can easily come up with many different negative ideas and assumptions – this should be prevented at all costs.
When it comes to intimacy, INFPs are more likely to focus on satisfying the needs of their dating or long-term partner as opposed to putting their own pleasure first. People with this personality type will not rush to sexual intimacy. They will study their dating partner, get to know them really well, and only then consider moving on to the next stage of the relationship. That being said, INFPs are likely to get a lot of pleasure from intimacy as sexual acts will give them an excellent opportunity to express their love.
Recommended partners: ENFJ and ENTJ types, as their Extraversion (E) and Judging (J) traits counterbalance INFPs’ Introversion (I) and Prospecting (P) traits.
Mungkin aja itu sebuah sign ke arah yang positif kaaan...
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cuman mau komen aja dari tulisan yg kebaca.
kepribadian hakikatnya perubahannya dinamis. gaada kepribadian yg tetap, konstan. aku menyebut teori ini seperti, kepribadian itu 'kosong'. kepribadian yg tetap ketika kita kekunci dirumah dan gaada sosialisasi dan internet selama sebulan--misal. faktanya manusia adalah manusia yg adaptif kalau mau bertahan hidup. persinggungan dgn dunia baru dalam komunitas, organisasi, sampai dunia kecil yg disebut dgn teman baru juga termasuk.
lalu, apa manfaatnya tahu tes kepribadian MBTI ini?
selain kelebihan MBTI yg menawarkan jawaban dgn 16 varian tipe berbeda yg lebih kompleks dan logis, aku mau cerita dulu soal teori kepribadian lagi.
kalau toh kepribadian itu kosong, lalu adakah hakikat yg baik dari pencarian jati diri?
karena kasarannya percuma dong kita mencari jati diri, kalau tahu toh nantinya kita ya bisa berubah. jati dirinya nggak jelas tergantung masa. (/'-')/
meski jawabannya bisa didapat dari prinsip dan karakter yg dapat membantu memudahkan hidup kita karena fokus dan hukum tarik-menarik.
namun, aku tahu kalau pada dasarnya kita punya kepribadian yg 'dominan'.
inilah yg ditawarkan oleh MBTI. kalau aku kembalikan pada hakikat jati diri, bisa dibilang: kembali fokus pada jati diri dominan.
lantas, kepribadian dominan itu yg kayak gimana?
kepribadian terbentuk dari habit, atau lengkapnya terbentuk dari persepsi yg terjadi secara otomatis ketika mendapat impuls-impuls dari lingkungan.
kepribadian dominan muncul ketika kita sulit utk 'memilih', belum menjadi pribadi yg proaktif.
faktornya ada 2. yg pertama ketika kita masih kecil, ketika kita masih insecure-insecurenya. disini parenting berperan penting. yg kedua, kecenderungan lingkungan yg sedikit memberikan pengalaman traumatis.
inilah yg menjadikan kita punya kepribadian kita yg sekarang. dan, diistilah MBTI pun juga ada istilah 'developed'. maka, sebenernya kepribadian kita tidaklah berubah. tapi 'berkembang'. itu seperti aku yg INTJ misal, ketika aku benar-benar melakukan saran pengembangan utk lebih berempati pada orang lain, lalu aku menjadi INFJ? tidak. aku tetap INTJ, yg developed. dapat pula dikategorikan sebagai ambivert atau X. kalau aku ngaca dari diriku sendiri, aku termasuk INXX.
sekarang, apakah kalian yakin kepribadian dominan kalian itu yg kayak sekarang?
FYI tes dimana kalian coba berpengaruh lho. sejauh ini yg aku lihat credible sih di mypersonality.info. have u all been checked it? kalau mau lebih kepo lagi, teliti sendiri makna perhuruf-hurufnya. utk web yg bahasa Indonesia bisa cek di ipersonic.net. kalau mau lebiih kepo lagi, teliti lagi dari unsur-unsurnya kayak se, si, ne, ni, te, ti, fe, fi nya.
adakah disini yg gabung di grup MBTI Indonesia di fesbuk? disana penjelasannya lebih kompleks lho kalau kalian join dibagian intellectual type(NT).
kalau ada yg ditanyakan, monggo. aku suka berbagi.
ah, maaf kalau aku gangerti 'cara main' disini. namanya juga orang baru ye.
@omex