Aquascaping: from beginner to advance hobbyist

WYATB

@dundileo: baguuuus neh, pagi ini bangun2 ternyata saklar otomatis buat lampunya rusak.. Huh..

dundileo

Commitment and determination. Never let any small, minor, tiny, puny, itty-bitty obstacle make you down.

WYATB

@dundileo: for a greater result? Never! But not applied to a random goal.

dundileo

Such as?

WYATB

Greater result? Founding great job, great career, greater income, greater happiness, greater future lah..
Random goal? Ya bisa jd nih tank. Awalnya kan pingin bangkitin hobi lama agar bf pny kesibukan lain, selain sapa tau bisa bareng2 rintis bisnis dari hobi. Bukan cmn sekedar pengalih perhatianku aja agar gak eneg ngeliat orng yg lengket duduk di kursi berjam-jam only for gaming.

@raufan: kayaknya bagusan avatar pic-mu yg kmrn bro, angle-nyaa pas bikin keliatan ganteng, hehehe..

dundileo

Wow. #gasping for some fresh air. I knew you would answer pretty much that way. So self-centered. Now.. If I may say something, what can I say, how should I say it.. You never consider your BF as part of your life, you never see him in your future, then why bother? Sampai kapan pun loe nggak akan bisa menemukan aktivitas sebagai pelampiasan yang mampu menutup dia dari mata loe. As I've mentioned several times before: get used to it, or get over it.

BUT.. As I've grown to know you a bit more, I think you should, you must, change your own way of thinking. Gw rasa most likely sampai kapan pun, loe nggak bakal menemukan orang yang cocok dengan loe permanently. Artinya, most likely sampai kapan pun loe akan sampai pada titik di mana loe akan merasa ter-annoyed oleh aktivitas pasangan loe, because anybody will become imperfect for you eventually. Furthermore, most likely sampai kapan pun loe mencoba melarikan diri dengan aktivitas atau "hobi lama" loe lainnya, you will never succeed. You will never be satisfied. You will never get enough. Look into yourself, the problem is inside you, Brur.

Kalau gw sih, karena ini memang kesukaan gw (dan BF), dan consider nature is part of our lives, ya gw jalani aja. I try to accept that learning and also failure, are parts of the process, of the enjoyment. Gw sudah punya aquarium sejak gw umur 5 tahun, dan gw akan selalu punya sampai gw kakek2 nanti. Gw sudah belajar nanam tomat-cabe sejak gw TK, dan gw akan terus menanam tanaman lainnya seterusnya selama gw mampu, dengan cara yang gw bisa. This is not a faux pleasure to me, this IS part of my life.

Om mani padme hum..

dundileo

@WYATB, gw lupa kata2 siapa ini: (sepertinya jaman Balai Pustaka atau Pujangga Baru, something like this) "berkelana keliling dunia mencari kebahagiaan, tapi sebetulnya kebahagiaan ada di dalam diri." Believe me it's true. I've been here and there too: the deserts, the snowy mountains, the remote islands, the city of love. I have money, to some extents. I have good career. I believe I have good future too. Apa itu semua bisa memberi kebahagiaan bagi gw? NO.

If you can't fix yourself, you will never find joy in your life.

WYATB

@dundileo: hahaha.. U know me well ya.. #gasping some fresh air too.. Beneran pingin banget ketemu kamu n bf, get the positive importation from u guys.
Yeah I admit it, I am self center.
My dogs are part of my life, hehehe... Taneman? Mm.. Ntar deh kalo udah pny rmh sendiri dmn aku aku bs nanem2. Tank? Love it since still kiddo. Mulai dari ikan2 kecil, lohan, arwana sampe marine tank. I think u will agree with me.
Btw td pas berangkat dengerin laagu dari Tangga yg kena banget nih, terutama lirik yg ini:
Cinta tak mungkin berhenti secepat saat aku jatuh hati
Jatuhkan hatiku kepadamu sehingga hidupku pun berarti
Cinta tak mudah berganti, tak mudah berganti jadi benci..

Have a nice day my bro @dundileo. WYATB, always!

dundileo

WYATB too, @WYATB. TTDJ. TTYL.

WYATB

@dundileo: kebahagiaan ada dalam diri sendir! Yup! Saat ini aku udah cukup merasa bahagia kok bro, bersyukur atas tahun2 hidupku akhir2 ini. Hidup ku skrng jauh2 lebih baik dari hidupku dulu, cmn aku bukan orng yg suka diem. I am still working to make my better future (kalo kamu mungkin udah lah). Why? I don't want my life, my old-age life will be back to my kiddo-experience, instead I want to do more than what I can do now to the poor kids like I was (or may be worse than my past). For me, happiness is not only what I can get but also about what I can share.
Aaaaah kok trit ku jd oot sndiri ini!

Kalo ngobrol soal private, di YM aja, makanya YM tuh aktifin! Hehehe.. Thx ya bro

Ee tuh saklar otomatismu beli di ace jg gak? Punyaku masak baru bbrp bulan udah rusak. Huh.. Ntar coba cari di tempat lain aja.

dundileo

WYATB wrote: »

For me, happiness is not only what I can get but also about what I can share.

Bohong! Kepentingan loe selalu jadi yang utama. You're selfish. You use people to pursue your goals. Orang lain yang tidak berguna akan loe tinggalkan. Hahaha..!!! #terlalu banyak nonton sinetron waktu kecil.

Ya, saklar gw beli di ACE. Gw punya 2 yang 1 lagi digital, sudah 3th.

raufan

WYATB wrote: »

Greater result? Founding great job, great career, greater income, greater happiness, greater future lah..
Random goal? Ya bisa jd nih tank. Awalnya kan pingin bangkitin hobi lama agar bf pny kesibukan lain, selain sapa tau bisa bareng2 rintis bisnis dari hobi. Bukan cmn sekedar pengalih perhatianku aja agar gak eneg ngeliat orng yg lengket duduk di kursi berjam-jam only for gaming.

@raufan: kayaknya bagusan avatar pic-mu yg kmrn bro, angle-nyaa pas bikin keliatan ganteng, hehehe..

itu gue sekarang brow turun bb 5 kg hahaha

WYATB

@dundileo: yup, teman aja aku pilih2 kok bro, hrs yg bisa kasi masukan positif ke aku! Aku tau kok setiap orng pny kekurangan dan kelebihan, krn aku pun bukan superman. Cmn aku gak mau pny teman yg banyak influence negativity to me, not helping me to be a better man, or worse just being parasite in a friendship.
Aku bohong? Hehehe.. Semoga tidak.. Gak perlu mengumbar kebaikan, soalnya pernah diajarin kalo kita ngelakuin kebaikan hanya utk dpt pujian dari orng lain, ya kita udah terima pahalanya saat itu, bukan pahala dari YMK.
Btw, nah kok pny ku baru bbrp bulan udah rusak? Huh...

@raufan: lebih cakepan kalo kamu gemukan kayak-nya, hehehe..

dundileo

@WYATB, Auf jangan diapa2in.

WYATB

Haish.. Come on bro @dundileo, ciyus miapa? You really put me on high.. Qiqiqiqi..
Jgn kuatir @raufan udah ifpil ama player kok (I read rauf writing in other thread). And fortunately I am not such a player.. Wkakakakak..